回答即可得2分，回答被采纳则获得悬赏分以及奖励20分Many people simply regard Pride and Prejudice as a love story, but in my opinion, this book is an illustration of the society at that She perfectly reflected the relation between money and marriage at her time and gave the people in her works vivid The characters have their own M Bennet is a woman who makes great efforts to marry off her M Bingley is a friendly young man, but his friend, M Darcy, is a very proud man who seems to always feel Even the five daughters in Bennet family are very Jane is simple, innocent and never speaks evil of Elizabeth is a clever girl who always has her own Mary likes reading classic (Actually she is a ) Kitty doesn’t have her own opinion but likes to follow her sister, L Lydia is a girl who follows exotic things, handsome man, and is somehow a little When I read the book, I can always find the same personalities in the society That is why I think this book is indeed the representative of the society in Britain in the 18th The family of gentleman in the countryside is Jane Austen’s favourite But this little topic can reflect big It concludes the stratum situation and economic relationships in Britain in her You can find these from the very beginning of this The first sentence in this book is It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife” The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but People always think that Austen was an expert at telling love In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy I couldn’t forget how eager M Bennet wants to marry off her If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many Jane Austen told us that money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her In “Pride and Prejudice”, the sister of M Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy The society, the relatives would not allow them to get In modern society, although the marriages of economic needs have decreased rapidly, the concept of “money determines everything” is still rooted in some people’s A lot of parents try hard to interfere their children’s Education background, possessions, jobs remains the main reason that may influence one’s Marry for money is still a big problem in our We can’t help thinking: can money determine everything? Austen left this problem for us to The genius of Jane Austen lies in this perfect simplicity, the simplicity that reflects big Although Austen was only 21 when she wrote “Pride and Prejudice”, her sharp observation of social lives makes the style of this book surprisingly mature and The plots in her works are always very The development of the plot is as inevitable as a problem in I think the depth of Pride and Prejudice is the reason that makes this book prominent and Today, her book still can be the guide telling us the economic relationships both at her time and in modern
"Pride and Prejudice" a well-known British writer Jane Austin Works describe the arrogance of single young Darcy and Miss Elizabeth the Second bias, wealthy singles Bingley and Jane eldest virtue of the feelings of disputes between the full expression of the author's own marriage, emphasizing the economic benefits of the appointment of Love and the impact of What is marriage? Since ancient times people are exploring, but none has been to find an answer, it should be said there is no single Indeed, marriage has always been good or bad has a lot of subjective Outsiders seems painful marriage the parties may feel extremely happy, let them, outsiders seem happy marriage, the parties may have made the J Austin, in her "Pride and Prejudice" in the show give her marriage to demonstrate her views on Money and love in the achievements of both marital important one and should not care! However, compared to the achievements of marriage for love is more important on some!"Pride and Prejudice" in describing a variety of marriage, Jane and Bingley, Darcy and Elizabeth, Wickham and Lydia, and Charlotte Collins, Lucas Charlotte and Lydia on behalf of two extremes, the former only the pursuit of "reliable storage room, the future will not be cold by the hunger": the latter is purely for sexual impulse, totally unmindful of the Charlotte has been through the marriage house, small yard, furniture and other furnishings of a comfortable small home, but ironically, in her happy life after marriage but not the husband's "As long as Collins forgotten, and the rest everything is harmonious and comfortable," Lydia was a little girl confused by the rhetoric of Wickham, Wickham Living as one with no thought of the future life would be no Wickham Darcy through marriage to extort at least £ 10,000 a Their married life, the authors do not describe too much, so we can not imagine life without love What is Marriage is based on love, no love, a rare happy Darcy's cousin Colonel Fitzwilliam is a count of the younger son can not inherit family property and title, but also one of Elizabeth's爱慕者, he frankly said to Elizabeth, who are accustomed to spending their own, in the event of marriage can not but consider the money He said that the question of marriage there is only a conditional Darcy from the constraints of money free to Darcy also because in terms of money and social status has the very advantage of him become so arrogant and his arrogance so Elizabeth has this bias against Darcy so the first time to propose to Elizabeth to be outrightly ruled out the possibility Elizabeth will not be because he was very rich and would marry him, no love, she would prefer not to marry, so she refused to Collins, the latter are refuse D "No love can be tens of millions should not get married," This is the view of Elizabeth is also the author of Austin's Darcy was later changed in order to Elizabeth has always been the arrogance of their own, because he really fell in love with Elizabeth, and his own change, but also changed the views of Elizabeth to him, accepted him slowly, Fall in love with Finally get Elizabeth can be said that Austin's own portrayal of the author, her marriage, through the Elizabeth we can watch one of the authors are not despise the kind of love, marriage, are opposed to no economic foundation of Money and love in the achievements of both marital important one and should not care! However, compared to the achievements of marriage for love is more important on some!《傲慢与偏见》事英国著名女作家简。奥斯丁的代表作。作品描写傲慢的单身青年达西与偏见的二小姐伊丽莎白、富裕的单身贵族彬格莱与贤淑的大小姐吉英之间的感情纠葛，充分表达了作者本人的婚姻观，强调了经济利益对任命恋爱和婚姻的影响。什么是美满的婚姻？从古到今人们都在探索，可是一直以来都没找到一个答案，应该说没有一个统一的说法。的确，婚姻的好坏本来就是有主观因素颇多的。外人看来痛苦的婚姻当事人却可能感觉美好无比，放过来，外人看起来美满的婚姻，当事人却可能有苦难言。简。奥斯丁在她的《傲慢与偏见》中就给人们展示了她的婚姻观，展示了她对美满婚姻的看法。金钱与爱情在成就婚姻上二者都重要，舍其一而不能！但相比较来说在成就美满婚姻上爱情更重要一些！《傲慢与偏见》里描写了各种不同的婚姻关系，吉英与彬格莱、达西与伊丽莎白、韦翰与丽迪雅、柯林斯牧师与夏绿蒂。卢卡斯……。夏绿蒂与丽迪雅代表两种极端，前者只追求“可靠的储藏室，日后可以不致挨冻受饥”：后者纯粹出于性的冲动，完全不顾后果。夏绿蒂通过婚姻得到了房子，小院子，家具陈设等一个舒服的小家，但是讽刺的在她的婚后幸福生活当中却没有了丈夫的地位。“只要把柯林斯忘掉，其余一切都很舒适融洽”丽迪雅是一个小女孩受韦翰的花言巧语迷惑，一心跟韦翰生活，并没想到以后的生活会没保障。韦翰通过婚姻至少向达西敲诈了一万英镑的财产。他们婚后生活，不用作者过多的描绘，也没想象到没有爱情的生活是怎样的了。婚姻的基础是爱情，没有爱情，结婚难得美满。达西的表兄费茨威廉上校是位伯爵的小儿子，不能继承家产和爵位，也是伊丽莎白的爱慕者之一，他坦白地向伊丽莎白说，自己挥霍惯了，在婚姻大事上不能不考虑钱财。他说，在婚姻问题上只有达西有条件不受钱财的约束而自由地选择。也因为达西在金钱和社会地位上非常的有优势，所以他变得傲慢，他的傲慢使伊丽莎白对他有这偏见。所以达西第一次向伊丽莎白求婚的时候被决绝了。伊丽莎白不会因为他有钱就会嫁给他，没有爱情她宁愿不嫁，所以她先是拒绝柯林斯，后是拒绝达西。“没有爱情可千万不能结婚”这是伊丽莎白的观点，也是作者奥斯丁的观点。后来达西为了伊丽莎白改变了自己一向的傲慢，因为他真的是爱上伊丽莎白了，他自己的改变，也改变了伊丽莎白对他的看法，慢慢地接受了他，爱上他。最后结婚。伊丽莎白可以说是作者奥斯丁自己的写照，她的婚姻观，通过伊丽莎白我们可一看的出，作者是鄙视那种没有爱情的婚姻，也不赞成没有经济基础的婚姻的。金钱与爱情在成就婚姻上二者都重要，舍其一而不能！但相比较来说在成就美满婚姻上爱情更重要一些！或者你可以自己找一下Analyzation of Elizabeth's Characteristics and Views of Marriage in Pride and Prejudice网上似乎有类似的英语论文内容，你可以试着搜一下看看做参考。
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"Pride and Prejudice" a well-known British writer Jane Austin Works describe the arrogance of single young Darcy and Miss Elizabeth the Second bias, wealthy singles Bingley and Jane eldest virtue of the feelings of disputes between the full expression of the author's own marriage, emphasizing the economic benefits of the appointment of Love and the impact of What is marriage? Since ancient times people are exploring, but none has been to find an answer, it should be said there is no single Indeed, marriage has always been good or bad has a lot of subjective Outsiders seems painful marriage the parties may feel extremely happy, let them, outsiders seem happy marriage, the parties may have made the J Austin, in her "Pride and Prejudice" in the show give her marriage to demonstrate her views on Money and love in the achievements of both marital important one and should not care! However, compared to the achievements of marriage for love is more important on some!"Pride and Prejudice" in describing a variety of marriage, Jane and Bingley, Darcy and Elizabeth, Wickham and Lydia, and Charlotte Collins, Lucas Charlotte and Lydia on behalf of two extremes, the former only the pursuit of "reliable storage room, the future will not be cold by the hunger": the latter is purely for sexual impulse, totally unmindful of the Charlotte has been through the marriage house, small yard, furniture and other furnishings of a comfortable small home, but ironically, in her happy life after marriage but not the husband's "As long as Collins forgotten, and the rest everything is harmonious and comfortable," Lydia was a little girl confused by the rhetoric of Wickham, Wickham Living as one with no thought of the future life would be no Wickham Darcy through marriage to extort at least £ 10,000 a Their married life, the authors do not describe too much, so we can not imagine life without love What is Marriage is based on love, no love, a rare happy Darcy's cousin Colonel Fitzwilliam is a count of the younger son can not inherit family property and title, but also one of Elizabeth's爱慕者, he frankly said to Elizabeth, who are accustomed to spending their own, in the event of marriage can not but consider the money He said that the question of marriage there is only a conditional Darcy from the constraints of money free to Darcy also because in terms of money and social status has the very advantage of him become so arrogant and his arrogance so Elizabeth has this bias against Darcy so the first time to propose to Elizabeth to be outrightly ruled out the possibility Elizabeth will not be because he was very rich and would marry him, no love, she would prefer not to marry, so she refused to Collins, the latter are refuse D "No love can be tens of millions should not get married," This is the view of Elizabeth is also the author of Austin's Darcy was later changed in order to Elizabeth has always been the arrogance of their own, because he really fell in love with Elizabeth, and his own change, but also changed the views of Elizabeth to him, accepted him slowly, Fall in love with Finally get Elizabeth can be said that Austin's own portrayal of the author, her marriage, through the Elizabeth we can watch one of the authors are not despise the kind of love, marriage, are opposed to no economic foundation of Money and love in the achievements of both marital important one and should not care! However, compared to the achievements of marriage for love is more important on some!《傲慢与偏见》事英国著名女作家简。奥斯丁的代表作。作品描写傲慢的单身青年达西与偏见的二小姐伊丽莎白、富裕的单身贵族彬格莱与贤淑的大小姐吉英之间的感情纠葛，充分表达了作者本人的婚姻观，强调了经济利益对任命恋爱和婚姻的影响。什么是美满的婚姻？从古到今人们都在探索，可是一直以来都没找到一个答案，应该说没有一个统一的说法。的确，婚姻的好坏本来就是有主观因素颇多的。外人看来痛苦的婚姻当事人却可能感觉美好无比，放过来，外人看起来美满的婚姻，当事人却可能有苦难言。简。奥斯丁在她的《傲慢与偏见》中就给人们展示了她的婚姻观，展示了她对美满婚姻的看法。金钱与爱情在成就婚姻上二者都重要，舍其一而不能！但相比较来说在成就美满婚姻上爱情更重要一些！《傲慢与偏见》里描写了各种不同的婚姻关系，吉英与彬格莱、达西与伊丽莎白、韦翰与丽迪雅、柯林斯牧师与夏绿蒂。卢卡斯……。夏绿蒂与丽迪雅代表两种极端，前者只追求“可靠的储藏室，日后可以不致挨冻受饥”：后者纯粹出于性的冲动，完全不顾后果。夏绿蒂通过婚姻得到了房子，小院子，家具陈设等一个舒服的小家，但是讽刺的在她的婚后幸福生活当中却没有了丈夫的地位。“只要把柯林斯忘掉，其余一切都很舒适融洽”丽迪雅是一个小女孩受韦翰的花言巧语迷惑，一心跟韦翰生活，并没想到以后的生活会没保障。韦翰通过婚姻至少向达西敲诈了一万英镑的财产。他们婚后生活，不用作者过多的描绘，也没想象到没有爱情的生活是怎样的了。婚姻的基础是爱情，没有爱情，结婚难得美满。达西的表兄费茨威廉上校是位伯爵的小儿子，不能继承家产和爵位，也是伊丽莎白的爱慕者之一，他坦白地向伊丽莎白说，自己挥霍惯了，在婚姻大事上不能不考虑钱财。他说，在婚姻问题上只有达西有条件不受钱财的约束而自由地选择。也因为达西在金钱和社会地位上非常的有优势，所以他变得傲慢，他的傲慢使伊丽莎白对他有这偏见。所以达西第一次向伊丽莎白求婚的时候被决绝了。伊丽莎白不会因为他有钱就会嫁给他，没有爱情她宁愿不嫁，所以她先是拒绝柯林斯，后是拒绝达西。“没有爱情可千万不能结婚”这是伊丽莎白的观点，也是作者奥斯丁的观点。后来达西为了伊丽莎白改变了自己一向的傲慢，因为他真的是爱上伊丽莎白了，他自己的改变，也改变了伊丽莎白对他的看法，慢慢地接受了他，爱上他。最后结婚。伊丽莎白可以说是作者奥斯丁自己的写照，她的婚姻观，通过伊丽莎白我们可一看的出，作者是鄙视那种没有爱情的婚姻，也不赞成没有经济基础的婚姻的。金钱与爱情在成就婚姻上二者都重要，舍其一而不能！但相比较来说在成就美满婚姻上爱情更重要一些！或者你可以自己找一下Analyzation of Elizabeth's Characteristics and Views of Marriage in Pride and Prejudice网上似乎有类似的英语论文内容，你可以试着搜一下看看做参考。
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Having read the novel Gone With The Wind written by American writer Margaret Mitchell,I was deeply The novel, which Margaret spent about 10 years on, not only created a myth,but also show her own personal charm to the Novel's underground is based on the Civil War which happened in the United States, according to the changes of the Civil War starts the circumstances, so it has divided the macro history into micro history of personal We can realise that misty thinking of Margaret through characters changes of Heroine Scarlett is a simple but very complex On the surface she has kinds of good quality,quiet, good-hearted, full of ability like her mother Aland, but the vast majority of cases, the restless temperamenrd to her Contacting her at first, I thought that she is just a beautiful, stubborn and proud She 's so beautiful that almost all the young men in the book are tempated by She seems to have become accustomed to dealing within these young men, like a cold hot fire but locked of love to blame, which almost makes many men She has strong cravings in all the good things, and she wants to take away all the boy'sSuch blatant selfishness seems But her exaggerated and performance doesn't work on Rhett Butler and Ashley Wilkes, and makes a completely different Scarlett can't grasp the heart of Ashley Wilkes, who is out of her To my surprise, she produced some mystical love toward But to nigmatic Rhett Butler,she gain the feeling of These two feelings, as the main theme of the novels from beginning to hearts around her, even her older sister's valentine's Scarlett's hasty makes her pay a great price! In order to show that she is not “no buyer” to Ashley Wilkes, she get married with Charlesa Hamilton who she doesn't Soon after the war broke out, Charles die, Scarlett become a At that time, she is just a willful child, consequences and responsibility don't seem to have relations to Due to her rebelious character,the “moral standard” doesn't work on her, but keep widow life away from plain and So she continues to show her own charm and still attracts a lot of War has changed Scarlett, and it also enables me to a better understanding toward She kills the Northen soliders at the critical moment, and creats a causein extreme It all reflects her strong, courage, In order to protect her families and industries, she had to get married with Frank Kennedy, which shows her spirit of sacrifice to Business established period, her unique wision of the economic, commercial talent, the spirit of daring to struggle, in fact , those advantages are very common of traditional women, but easily overlooked in the past Scarlett is a proud woman after all, she turn a blind eye to many beautiful things around her, such as Melanie Hamilton Wilkes' love, and Rhett Butler's care, not to mention the treasure! Instead, she constants to pursuit the Unreal misty love toward A When she grasps, Melanie Hamilton Wilkeshas been dead, Rhett Butler's love But Scarlett is still so strong, it seems that nobody can see through I am so deeply shocked by the indomitable spirit of Scarlett facing But to attain her end by hook, I feel And I am so angry with her infatuation attitude to Ashley W While the more care Rhett Butler give to Scarlett, the more joy I But at last, Rhett fell dispointment and left Scarlett, what a pity!I think every one of us has her own desires, each person is serching for her own happniess The desire will be a driving force for us, and the desire can improve the development of Science and technology may also lead to crime and Though desires may have some bad effects on us, it very We will pursue our own happiness, although we there might be some difficulties and disputes, we should not give up our desire!
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就把握金钱围绕爱情和婚姻这个主题写嘛。简单来说，社会地位财富对爱情婚姻有影响没错，但真正的爱情未必一定受金钱的束缚。然后举小说里的例子，夏洛蒂和柯林斯，莉迪亚和Wickham，简和宾利，最后伊莉莎白和达西。没对都有自己的特点，结合着总结一下。
中美婚姻观的差异？（一）结婚目的两国婚姻观念的差异明显体现在结婚目的上。传统中国人的婚姻是为了整个家庭，而不是为了个人。单身青年在选择未来伴侣时会听从父母之命，媒妁之言。这种婚姻的主要目的是巩固和加强两个家族的权力。在现代中国，尽管传统的结婚目的受到了严重的冲击，但要转变根深蒂固的传统仍然不是一件容易的事。上海社会科学院的一项调查显示，仅出于爱情的缘故而结婚的年轻人比例约为25%。而美国人结婚的主要原因有两个：一，对于恋爱中的情侣来说，婚姻是爱情的完美结局;二，这种长期伴侣关系是寻求心理和身体需求的好方法。90%的美国人认为婚姻的先决条件是爱情，婚姻是两个人而不是两个大家庭的结合。从他们的角度来看，没有爱情的婚姻是不道德的。（二）配偶选择标准两国在配偶选择上的差异在很大程度上受结婚目的的影响。当两个年轻人不顾家人的强烈反对而寻求真爱时，大多结局悲惨。即使在现代中国，大多数年轻人在选择伴侣时仍然要寻求父母的同意。此外，不少人也同时考虑未来伴侣的经济状况。与中国配偶选择标准不同，美国人认为夫妻双方合得来才是关键要素。家庭背景、文化程度等因素对婚姻并不重要。因此，在现实生活中经常发生诸如王子和白雪公主的西方童话故事。（三）夫妻关系中国是一个典型的男性社会，男人在家庭关系中起着主导作用。这种长期的传统是由中国古代的社会分工造成的。“男主外女主内”的思想已经根深蒂固。在当代中国，尽管妇女的家庭地位已得到很大改善，但大多数中国已婚妇女在某种程度上仍需要依靠丈夫。在中国，妻子依靠丈夫来赚钱养家是很普遍的现象。但是，丈夫辞职留在家里照顾家庭的现象并不常见。在美国这样的西方社会，夫妻是平等的伴侣。特别是自工业革命以来，对劳动力的需求刺激了越来越多的妇女参加工作。随着妇女对社会的贡献不断增加，她们开始呼吁更多的自由与平等。（四）离婚态度大多数中国人仍然怀有对婚姻一心一意的信念。中国人非常重视人际关系，一旦感情受到伤害，他们会寻求家人或朋友的安慰与和解，这可能会大大减轻夫妻关系的紧张。此外，中国人认为完整的家庭也是给孩子的一份保障。美国是一个多元文化的国家，重视个性发展、追求快节奏的生活和相对冷淡的人际关系使他们通常会用离婚来结束一段感情。中美婚姻观念差异的原因：1、从结婚目的来看，中国人的结婚目的在一定程度上维持了婚姻的稳定性和持久性，因为夫妻双方在婚姻中会考虑更多的因素，而不仅仅是他们自己的感情。相反，美国人的结婚目的通常是以爱情为导向的，在他们看来，爱情是婚姻的基础。我们在欣赏这种纯洁的婚姻目的的同时，也必须意识到随着爱情的消逝，他们更有可能结束婚姻关系。2、在配偶选择方面，中国人将家庭背景视为重要因素，门当户对才是正确的婚姻选择。而美国人认为一切外在因素都不是重要的，双方合得来才至关重要。在当今社会，中国年轻人既需要向美国人学习，拥有自己的婚姻决定权，但也要尊重父母的意见。在夫妻关系上，双方应该平等，平等地享受权利、承担义务以维持婚姻的和谐。同时，夫妻双方也要保持相对独立。在离婚态度上，即使夫妻双方没有了爱情，很多中国人还是愿意为了孩子勉强维持婚姻，这种婚姻看似家庭和睦，实则是忽略和放弃了自己的感情。而美国人却会选择结束感情，寻求自我。但是许多孩子在父母离婚后没有接受良好的家庭教育，从客观上导致了青少年犯罪率上升，孩子的身心容易受到伤害。中美婚姻观念的差异与历史、文化、经济等都是分不开的。要用批判的眼光继承中国传统婚姻观念中的积极部分，并借鉴美国婚姻观念中的优势，例如，以爱情为导向的婚姻，平等的配偶关系等。同时也必须牢记，经过数千年的考验，中国婚姻观念具有其自身的独特优势。保持家庭关系的稳定很重要，这也有利于社会和谐。
聊聊东西方婚姻观。第一，对个人而言。婚姻对于西方人来讲，是个人情感问题，是个个人幸福问题。会婚姻对中国人而言，是你是不是成人。是你没有完成个人的成长。是你没有找到个人的归。所以你没有婚姻，你是不幸的，你是可怜的，你是值得同情的。所谓的男大当婚，女大当嫁，就是对这个问题的社会解释。如果你如果不结婚，证明独立的人格，证明，你有问题证明，你，没有吸引力，证明你没有魅力证明你的，能力不行，证明你的人格不健全，甚至在单位上甚至单位提拔，都没有你的事。如果你在同居状态 ，没有进入婚姻状态，说明你过的日子不正常，不着调，是不被这个祝福的。你的两性关系是不能公开出来说的。第二，对父母而言。婚姻对西方的父母来说，是孩子的个人隐私，是你自己的选择，有合适的结婚，没有合适也可以不结婚。这完全是你个人的事。婚姻对中国父母来讲，是父母的责任，父母有帮助儿女成家的责任。在古代，父母是必须给儿女建立婚姻。在子女的成家，婚姻问题上，父母有有财产资助的义务，有情感帮助的义务，有协调矛盾的义务，有在道义上赞助的义务。儿女的婚姻是父母永远不能抹去的责任，是父母对儿女成长的一种付出，除了帮助带大孙子以外，这就是最大的一个付出了。第三社会是鼓励年轻人结婚成家的。从对年轻婚姻的祝福，到提供婚姻假期等方便。因此我们这个社会是鄙视拆散别人婚姻的人，鼓励那些帮助别人成家的人。这就是一个追求完整性的文化。中国人的文化里，追求完整，追求圆满，追求儿女成家，夫妻和睦，儿女双全，父母健康，这种圆满的追求就形成了中国人的一种平衡，圆润，满足的社会文化状态。第四，中国人对幸福的理解是表面的，中国人缺少对幸福的情感体验，对幸福的内心体验。所以中国的婚姻即使很不愉快，也会将就着过下去。这就是中国人重视完美，忽略个性的体现。所以现在很多知识女性就不愿意结婚，宁可交男朋友，也不愿意结婚，就是对这个文化的一种反抗。
传统上，中国人认为婚姻是家族传宗接代的方式。对于夫妻和谐关系的培养，中国文化倡导夫妻间要互相理解，互相信任；要彼此关心、爱护、体贴、照顾，尊重感情，发生矛盾要互相忍让，切忌伤害揭短，有过激言行；在家中权利与义务平等，大事、要事要共同商量，不要武断、独裁，个人说了算；要共同负担家务劳动，平等对待双方父母与亲友；教育子女的态度要一致；保持性生活和谐；因工作需要两地工作的夫妻要加强书信往来，交流感情，诉衷情，表思念，并过好一年一度的探亲假。 在美国，婚姻则与独立自由、权利平等的思想息息相关，其婚姻家庭模式主要有三种。第一是浪漫爱情家庭模式，这个模式与自由思想紧密相连，强调个人意志的选择，作为美国主流的婚姻家庭模式，其离婚率也是相当高的，因为人们可以根据自我感觉结合，但对家庭的责任意识则比较薄弱。第二种是犹太基督教家庭模式。此类模式和宗教有关，倡导者信奉婚姻是上帝的意志决定，同时，生儿育女也是上帝意志的决定。夫妻双方应当对爱情和婚姻持有高尚的信仰，一辈子不离不弃。这种模式中的婚姻关系是一种永久性关系，以爱为基础，双方都要对彼此忠诚。第三种是理性家庭模式，这也是一种比较稳定的婚姻家庭模式，男女理性对待择偶和婚姻，双方在婚姻生活中相互调节，相互依靠，成为稳定的生活伴侣。而当产生矛盾时，双方不是像理性婚姻夫妻一样争吵，而是理性对待，调节关系和相处方式，如果调节失败，就会选择分居或者离婚。在理性婚姻中，法律起着举足轻重的作用，它是婚姻的保障，所以，夫妻双方签订婚前协议的在美国是很正常的情况，但是在中国则极为罕见。 一、中美女性婚姻观差异分析 （一）选择婚姻伴侣的标准差异 很多美国女性选择伴侣时，倡导婚姻的绝对自由，大多依靠自己的喜好和感觉。如果男女相爱，有共同的兴趣爱好，性格不冲突，并相互尊重，他们那就可以结婚，组建家庭。但是，在中国，一方面，大多女性则看重男方现下经济状况或者潜力，如金钱、地位和家庭背景。在北京，如果一个男人想要结婚，不吃不喝，他需要存12年以上的钱。在哈尔滨，男人想要迎娶一个中产阶级的女性，他需要700，000人民币。当下，在中国，没有房的男子在选择伴侣中处于劣势。另一方面，自封建社会以来，“门当户对”的观念就一直流行，在大众心理已经根深蒂固，在选择婚姻伴侣时，女性很看重双方的经济、权势、家庭背景等的对等，较少会出现丈夫和妻子学历、经济状况相差很大的情况。网络上很流行的一句话“宁愿坐在宝马里哭泣，也不愿意坐在自行车上笑”就很好地反应了当下中国女性的择偶标准和婚姻价值取向。 相比较而言，在美国，女性较少看重金钱和房子。即使没有房子，他们也可以结婚，然后两个一起奋斗买房。家庭背景、经济地位、教育经历，甚至是宗教信仰多不会成为自由恋爱的阻碍，只要双方心心相印，情投意合，就可以作为婚姻伴侣的选择。中国女性根本无法想象在经济高度发达的美国女性会这么不在乎房车。当然，美国女性也无法理解为什么中国女性要求男方一定要有房才可以结婚。
婚姻的态度是不一样的，而且在选择婚姻伴侣上也会有着很多的要求，同时也会有着一定的失忆，中国的婚姻会更讲究一些门当户对类型的，在美国的婚姻更讲究个人主义和自由观。
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